Archive | September 2009

Eating Healthy Helps Eradicate Food Addictions

One of the best ways to begin to rid yourself of food addictions is to start eating in a more healthy manner. A great way to do that is with raw foods. You may lose weight from all that chewing alone.

When I say raw foods, I’m referring to fruit and vegetables, sprouts, and lots of other great, tasty foods that are, for the most part, still in a natural state.

“Raw” refers to unprocessed, fresh, and highly nutritious food, your body’s favorite kind. Just to be clear, this does not include foods that have been fried, salted to death, overcooked, boiled within an inch of their life, or covered with cream sauces or those acidic sauces that send you running for the pepto-bismal.

Raw food certainly does not mean that you would have to eat raw meat or anything like that. A raw food diet ( a word you won’t see me use very often) means you are eating foods full of energy because they are alive with nutrients.

While food addictions and emotional eating are the long- or short-term result of unresolved emotional trauma, you can still be a food addict and not be obese. You can be a food addict and lose unwanted fat while you are working on resolving those buried feelings.

Hardly anyone eats healthy food in the addictive, ravenous state, although some do. Most people eat “the good stuff” when they are overeating. When emotional eating occurs, the rough emotional experience seems to call for smooth foods like ice cream.

Overeating, food addictions, and emotional eating don’t just occur. We make them occur. The food at fault is what it is. We are the ones we need to work on. Overeating on white cheese rice cakes is no better than stuffing down your feelings with brownies. It just takes more rice cakes.

In any case, the food addict usually does not choose healthy foods. When the body gets food that is fresh and juicy, full of flavor and vitality, and refreshingly energizing, the food addict in you will head for the hills, at least temporarily.

It’s very hard to stuff yourself with raw, healthy, nutritious foods because when you eat those things, your body knows when to stop eating. Food addicts eat like they’re on a mission, and they are.

That mission is self-sabotage, but more on that at another time. For now, the food addiction needs a vacation. When it takes a vacation, you get a vacation. And eating for energy may just be your ticket.

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Five Causes of Food Addiction

Food addiction usually has some pretty deep roots. Here are five types of emotional trauma that contribute to creating a food addiction:

1. Shame. Shame is usually at the heart of a food addiction. Shame fans the flames of a food addiction like nothing else can. It makes you feel responsible for things you are not or were not responsible for, and that makes you feel helpless and not in control.

2. Parental Disapproval. Children want so much to please their parents. Children love unconditionally until they are taught differently. When children have to constantly guess at how to win their parents’ approval, they lose heart. They internalize the experience and embrace it as a failure on their part.

3. Perfectionism. Even though no one is perfect, there are those who find anything less than perfection unacceptable. If we are perfect, everything will be okay. Life changes. Things don’t stay as they are. Perfect moments change. It’s not your fault. It’s just life being life. You can’t control everything.

4. No Boundaries. Boundaries are like bridges with sides low enough to see over but high enough to keep you from toppling over if you get too close to the edge. Food addicts live on the edge. If you don’t have boundaries, for whatever reason, you will not feel safe. When food addicts do not feel safe, they eat until they do feel safe.

5. Revictimization. When a person has been victimized, there is a deep seated shame that accompanies the experience. Shame cannot be driven out. It has to be released. Repeatedly reliving the scenario, exploring possible different outcomes is futile. The event has passed. It must be faced, named, and let go of.

Food addictions don’t just happen. They are a response to emotional trauma that is still embraced and hidden away.

Food addicts stuff down their feelings with food. Eating is one thing we can control……………..until we can’t.

As long as there are feelings attached to an experience, positive or negative, it will continue to energize the food addiction.

When the experience becomes just an experience with no emotions attached to it, the food addiction associated with it will wither away.

All healing takes place in the present, not in the past and not in the future. We cannot control those moments, but we can be in control each moment as it is happening.

Every moment without judgment is a step toward freedom from your food addiction. Emotional eating may still occur but it need not be a threat to your well-being and sanity.

You don’t owe anyone an explanation as to why you eat or overeat. You will have no need to stuff down tired, old, hopeless feelings once you give them a name. It’s only shame till it has a name.

You can choose what you want to do, including how you want to eat.  Just like with anything else, the more information you have, the more choices you have and the more wisely you can choose.